I deeply believe that reaching Midlife is a DIVINE, MAJOR FORK IN THE ROAD MOMENT in our lives that deserves RESPECT, REVERENCE AND TIME FOR DEEP REST AND REFLECTION BEFORE OUR ‘SECOND SPRING’.

Reflection to make sense and make use of everything that’s gone before. Rest to ask “where to next?” And the space to wait for the answer to arrive. Overall, it’s a unique opportunity to begin beautifully self-authoring the rest of our days on this planet.

As a 50-something Cancer Thriver, I know, all too well that life is way too short, unpredictable and too deeply precious for ANY WOMAN be sleep-walking or ‘settling’ her way through it. For me, this age almost feels like THE UNIVERSE IS CALLING US INTO ITS OFFICE FOR OUR ‘MID-TERM’ REPORT AND PERFORMANCE EVALUATION….and we better have something good to say about “where we see ourselves in the next 5 – 10 years!”

Sadly, THE CALL TO BUILD A SELF-AUTHORED LIFE for so many, comes in the form crisis, via ill-health, grief or big relationship changes. It can also arrive via a general feeling of being ‘lost’, a creeping feeling of depression, anxiety or even anger. All of a sudden you’re hating your job/your partner/your kids/your parents/your house/the town you live in! All of a sudden, you find yourself not knowing who the f*ck you are anymore, what use you are in the world and where the hell all of this is heading!

This project and my Coaching offerings exist because…

I sincerely feel that there is lesser-discussed AND MOST IMPORTANT, psycho-spiritual dimension to feeling all this sh*t. This unease is shaking our shoulders requesting a massive wake-up before the mother of all pauses where a women retreats into her cocoon to begin the  inner-work required in order to REBIRTH as the most authentic version of her self yet. 

The trouble is….when we only view this lifephase through the lens of MENOPAUSE-STATUS and the negative manifestations of Menopause……when we get stuck in helplessness and pathologizing the changes in our body, soul and mind and take a stance of victimhood during this transition, I sincerely feel that we ‘miss the message in the mess‘.  It’s known as THE CHANGE for a very good reason! And chaos and change usually walk hand in hand.

Lastly, so many ‘coaching’ offerings promise you Nirvana on the other side of yet another new eating or workout plan with a cursory conversation about ‘mindset’.  These programmes are way too focused on soul-less SMART GOALS than the nurturing of your precious SOUL.  And for sure, we’re very much in the business of requiring ‘soul-surgery’ at this time. 

Whether you work with me for 1:1 Coaching or take part in the 4 MONTH LONG FULL IMMERSION, we ALWAYS start with what’s going on in your heart, head and soul, both right now and historically. Because there’s no deep and long-lasting change until we get to your core-beliefs and the root causes of your discomfort and discontent and start unraveling them with care and respect.  We ‘retreat’ so as to better advance.

So, if you’re ready to take a journey to find the ‘MESSAGE IN THE MESS’…..THIS IS THE PLACE FOR YOU!